Change-log history for Sleep Intimate XB1 / XOXO

changes 3.05 (2024-03-30)

fix romantic dance (Relax - Dance) stuck-black-screen

changes 3.04 (2024-02-13)

Now includes 3 animations by AVilas
—- standing hug
—- standing kiss
—- romantic slow dance - at seat choose dance (scroll down) - partner must be fully romanced or use True Love ring
Save-on-Rest set to 0 hours will auto-save after Rest and-get-out-of-bed without any sleep as long as time since last save is greater than 1 hour (3 hours on Survival)
fix romantic dance keep shoes equipped for any preference
now Undress-for-Rest disabled allows Rest (bed) and Relax (chair) for embrace or sleep
chair Relax now may choose Kiss; Embrace now only hugs – high endurance increases duration
chair Relax - Dance with fully romanced companion will play romantic dance with compatible animation pack (other companions silly dances)
(PC) C.H.A.K. Pack by Avilas recognized for cuddles, hugs, kisses, and romantic dances
bed embrace/cuddle undress rule changes:
—-standing hug/kiss the same, bed cuddles use sleep outfit (not bathrobe) unless already naked
—-bathrobe exception due to flipping up for bed cuddle animations
undress changed skip-undress from player-only already in sleepwear to skip only if both player and companion in sleepwear AND player not wearing hat or jacket or backpack
footwear preference better observed when removing hats and jackets outdoors and includes exception for using weight bench (same as dancing)
footwear-shoe dropped on ground now observes Backpack drop preference
at bed kiss/hug changed sleep outfit requirements so if player naked then only companion requires a sleep outfit inventoried (XOXO or no custom animations available)
fix backpack not always appearing on floor for chair relax
fix shoe fail to redress for case when dropped on ground
now compatible with “Companions also need to eat and sleep” (NNES) Bed Reserver - use Sleep Settings, NNES to toggle Rest or Bed Reserver - may set MCM hotkey
fix kiss misalignment when same genders swapped roles (should only happen in R-X after 3rd-party animation)
standing scene at player-position no longer drop sleep clothes or backpack – gets in way
changed rad-damage-check on chair Relax to just sit (embrace was allowed, but confusing)

changes 2.87 (2023-March-13)

Fix undress player sleepwear detection for case using slot-FX
added “Raid My Heart” (optional Atomic Lust) couch cuddle - Embrace at couch/sofa
Fix “Nora Spouse Companion” by HouseVariable: NoraSpouse ESM-file for immediate in-love and sex-appeal bonus (was only recognizing original ESP-file since v2.10)
increased intimacy chance with Nora-Spouse, DualSurvivor-Nate
recognizes “Azur Lane St. Louis” by DeserterX accessories item for sex-appeal bonus

changes 2.84.1 (2023-Jan-07)

Kiss Actor Align now compatible with custom-height companions (see Customize Sleep Intimate)
— select Kiss Actor Align (Enabled-Default) which maintains custom height at default scale
— (Enabled-Custom) maintains custom scale
— update patcher identifies and corrects custom-height companions with altered scales]
reduced repeated hugs at bed for more kissing
Fix Nick Valentine (romance) skipping embrace animation at bed and not working at motorcycle
added Footwear Menu for shoes and stockings intended for custom shoes or socks mods
footwear preferences: always undress or rarely undress
recognizes more outfits worn by romanced companions for sleep undress (Preston Garvey, Heather Casdin)
recognizes “Star Trek TOS” outfit by DeserterX tricorder for undress
Fix undress under-armor top (slot 36) without a bottom failing to remove for sleep
recognizes K-Girl shoes as footwear
recognizes Comfy Socks as footwear

changes 2.79 (2022-July-18)

new preference setting for backpack: placed custom pack uses (Green bag / itself)
improved health recover calculation so Fast-Wait-Skip results the same as slower sleep speeds
recognizes bags and packs from “We Are the Minutemen”

changes 2.78 (2022-May-11)

recognizes “Heather Casdin” V2 by llamaRCA custom romance
potential error correction for edge case missing settings holotape
improved optional undress-weapon for players using holstered weapons mods

Update 2.71.1 (2021 September 04)

preference Undress Weapon for Sleep/Relax now includes Relax - Sit or Embrace useful for holstered/visible weapons mods
changed handling of backpacks to avoid condition when companion’s backpack pops back on before animated scene
recognizes jewelry from “DX Vintage Summer” suit to keep most jewelry equipped for sleep or intimacy
fix sequence toggle Go-to-Bed between intimacy when tired resulted in after-intimacy dressed in bed without “Awaken”
fail intimacy check at bed now also disables go-to-bed prompt
disabling notifications now also disables go-to-bed prompt
fix “Backpacks of the Commonwealth” added Wastelander’s Backpack to use ground-object when placed
recognizes backpack from “Vault 111 Outfit CBBE” by DeserterX

Update 2.64 (2021 May)

added Intimacy setting, Kiss Align, to scale companion for better alignment during kiss animation
fix case equip both Intimate Lover Rings on companion causing True Love! to break

Update 2.63

armor mannequins from “Functional Displays” mod recognized as non-human for counting potential voyeurs
Atom Cats Garage location rating upgraded from wilderness to town for improved intimacy chance

Update 2.60 (2021 January)

reduced shaking during embrace animations
reduced companion fade-out (blinking) during embrace animations (Custom Camera enabled) – very close camera may still cause fade-out
may now toggle Redress after Rest to stay in PJs after bed – let the player dress
(2.49) Intimate Lover Ring equip - added checks for robots, children, and incompatible companions
(2.50) may now Mark Mask, Mark Backpack, Mark Overcoat/Jacket on companion equip
recognize “Utility Belt” by jags78 to restrict moving into Outfit Container on Quick Dress
added player-only Intimate Private Bed and Coffin - settlers ignore and compatible with “Workshop Plus”
re-balanced intimate-chance due to harsh same-day penalty with improved bonuses for holidays and perks
recognize more bed mods for companion go-to-bed: “Cozy Beds”, “Clean Beds”, “Renovated Furniture”
fix case companion failed to put on sleep clothes for bed embrace (both player and companion must have sleep outfits)
fix unrecognized player-race mod at bed intimacy

Update 2.48 (2020 August 27)

fix for Immersive Rest fast-time abruptly returning to constant-time
high radiation resistance ignores recent-radiation-damage warning on Rest
“APC Transport” sleeping bag marked no-Rest due to lack of space for animations – use normal sleep
new sleep setting, Undress Weapon: never, companion, player, all
restored Pip-Boy undress preference went missing after v2.0
correction for intimacy mid-sleep bonus for repeat attempts
recognizes OakleyMFrame as glasses for keep-equip/remove undress setting
recognizes “Nora Spouse” ESM version (update 2.46)

Update 2.45 (2020 June 16)

fix Immersive Rest fast-wait-time screen-effect failing to remove end of sleep
updated Stop Sleep Intimate to double-check disable health-recover and sleep-effect

Update 2.41 (2020 May 23)

(2.31) fixed alternate Intimate Lover Ring SH so companion will be found and display prompt
(2.31) 2nd lover should equip sleep clothes
Immersive Rest added fast-wait-skip – skips over mid-sleep for full sleep in 3 real-time minutes
Immersive Rest interrupt sleep increases chance for intimacy for 2 hours (until resume-sleep)
Immersive Rest resume interrupted within half hour no longer penalizes an hour
Immersive Rest fast-wait-time added notification on fast-time begin
intimacy before bed improves Immersive Rest recovery – less chance of illness
spectators expanded - may adjust preference to include more NPCs in addition to companions
added intro prompt for player to choose Immersive Rest sleep-rate
minor companion find bed improvement to handle cases when campanion stuck standing near bed instead
for custom bed: if companion “cannot find bed” try instruct companion sleep on bed and wait for companion to sleep then Rest–Sleep Intimate will attempt to identify bed for future
new preference to disable/enable health recovery during sleep (and renamed other to fatigue recovery)
fix for Dogmeat failing to go to doghouse during rest
PersonalGuard “Construct a Custom Companion” by Karel2015 - equip Intimate Lover’s Ring
(PC Nexusmods only) MCM hotkey for Awaken from bed

Update 2.30 (2020 March 21)

fix for Pip-Pad getting assigned instead of backpack, sleep clothes, jacket, or mask
adjusted backpack placement at stool
slot58 jewelry no longer removed on undress for bed
(PC Nexusmods only) MCM hotkey to toggle Seat Scenes setting, disabled or embrace

Update 2.26 (2019 December 29)

added coffin bed - sleep side-by-side with companion for Immersive Rest 7+ hours grants similar perk as double/twin beds
may not activate Relax at same seat lover seated upon without companion-busy excuse
bed intimacy with very favorable conditions may have 100% chance (old max 95)
Relax at DLC Weight Bench: sit removes hats, jackets, backpack to lift weights–or embrace
bunk beds available for intimacy
correction for double/fancy bed bonus and increased Home Plate/Private-area chance for balance
intimate spectators/guards now ignore more than a floor above or below
fix for SnapBeds not recognized when installed after starting Sleep Intimate
changed chair Relax outdoors to remove combat armor all year (not just summer) unless wearing jacket
fix Dogmeat go-to-bed when no other companion
PC: support for Hozsa’s “Easy Hombebuilder” pillow beds

Update 2.24 (2019 November 29)

added Intimate Chair, Motorcycle, and Pool Table to decorate and use as spot to embrace companion - build in workshop
Undress System now handles two coats/jackets/cloaks
new preference Multiple Coats Equipped (allow/prevent)
fixed Dogmeat at home (not following) teleporting to nearby doghouse after sleep
fixed Intimate Lover Ring fail 2nd time on custom campanion
fixed Test Menu - Get Naked! later failing to undress some items for bed due to changes in Undress System v2.0
fixed Test Menu - Redress Lover fail when within 4 seconds of undressing
changed Extra NPC companions to require minimum ‘friend’ affinity in case affinity lowers
twin/double-bed intimacy check no-prompt case: added a message twin-side in use (may happen if settler wants to use bed)
twin/double-bed improved support for custom companion NoraSpouseCompanion
update reviews romance status of custom companions to correct errors
Intimate Ring equip better supports custom companions and more Test Mode overrides

Update 2.20 (2019 October 17)

undress situational - if naked sleep clothes equip now limited to outdoors during winter, otherwise if naked, stay naked
correction to Intimate Exhibitionist reward stats (+2 charisma, +1 luck) and now only require 10 voyeurs
Intimate Lover’s Ring equip on invalid NPC now notifies (with notifications settings enabled)
Extra NPC companion wearing Intimate Lover’s Ring now allows intimacy even if Extra NPCs disabled (was showing ‘disgree’ message)
non-romanced, romance-able companion wearing Intimate Lover’s Ring will speak on wake as if fully romanced
fix Valentine without romance mod being chosen for intimacy in some cases
Stop Sleep Intimate now stops Intimate True Love quest without having to remove the Lover’s ring - likewise if mod stopped, equip ring no longer starts quest
capped maximum experience and increased Sex Appeal scaling for high experience
more bad blue tents detected as no-rest – will display sleep menu
“Locksmith - Lock Your Doors ‘n’ Containers” by Testudini – now ignores Quick Dress Outfit containers
“Comfy Socks” by Drake Seralman may be used as part of sleep outfit
PC: recognizes “Player Head Tracking” to automatically disable for bed

Update 2.16 (2019 September 19)

Vault 81 player’s bedroom no longer considered crime area - intimacy will not attract guards
fixed Quick Sleep load auto-save on-sleep to correctly recover and cancel sleep
new setting Rest / Undress: Undress Extended Slots (Situational or Never) for body slots 55-58, 61/FX – if have jewelry like to keep worn, set to Never
added to General Settings: Reset Help Tips Display for if you would like to see the initial help tips displayed again
improved chance for Relax - Embrace
intimacy chance improved for Extra NPC companions
intimacy chance fix for incorrectly counting sleeping child same as awake
intimacy chance improved in wilderness when alone
seat scenes: restored NPC sit ends scene early since smoother than NPC repeatedly walking into seat
seat Relax Dance: ignores seated companion
concerning high intimate fail rates: updated in-game feedback and adjusted mechanics to make it easier to reduce penalty
fix for fail to redress on bed exit for case: Quick Sleep after intimacy
undress improvements - extra companion check for outer armors
undress for sleep clothes: change to avoid removing custom sleep item using only armor slots (40-34)
Intimate Bed: if wearing pajamas, will not swap with stored pajamas
repeated intimate fail (4+ recent) displays tip reminder
intimate fail cool-down: instead of clear penalty after 3 hours, now gradually reduces penalty
correction for missing last-intimacy (shows zero) on intimacy crime-warn prompt
Magnolia date improvements: hug replaces dance with new position markers farther from wall to make room; added secondary fade-out, because normal game fade-out usually fails
Intimacy Perk message, “Happier and Healther Intimate Lovers” displays sooner after no sleep for bed occupied
recognizes “Scavver’s Backpacks” by SpiffySkyTrooper
Immersive Rest recovery better handles bed mods with custom sleep menu (skips time) like “Sleep Together Anywhere”
intimate exhibitionist perk - reduced requirement from 12 NPCs to 10 NPCs

Update 2.11 (2019 July 26)

scene start: if in 3rd-person view no longer toggles 1st-3rd view
fix: seat relax with Strong incorrectly displayed embrace menu
undress player double-check main outfit due to mods that re-equip by script (such as some Niero outfits)
fix: missed some clothing exceptions (drifter, suits, dresses) for situational outdoors which prevented sleep clothes
on seat embrace success now clears recent failed attempts to avoid penalty next bed intimacy check
anniversary holiday no longer counts first day out of vault
recognize “Nora Spouse” to allow intimacy before romancing Nora then after romanced get increased chance for success
recognize “Dual Survivors” to allow intimacy with Nate at start and with bonus chance
recognize “CROSS Wasteland Ronin” by Niero outer armor pieces handled

Update 2.02 (2019 June 9)

includes hugs and kisses with animations provided by TheRealRufgt (Nexusmods) - hug or kiss before bed or optionally at chairs (Seat Scenes)
Seat Scenes (see page for details): when enabled may activate ‘Relax’ on chair, bench, or sofa to embrace companion or dance
Intimate Lover Ring (page) - equip on companion to designate faitfhul lover
spectators - chance for nearby companions or guards to spectate bed-time intimate act, but guards may consider it criminal indecency (violence optional)
for Immersive Rest a second lover may sleep in a bed, too (may enable/disable in Intimacy Settings)
updated undress system to support new features – on next undress your character will completely undress (jewelry and Pip-Boy, too) to re-initialize the system
changed bed decoration placement to reduce bouncing or shooting away
changed after intimacy behavior to go-to-bed if Immersive Rest enabled and tired (like it once did) - may force prompt in settings
modified intimacy chance for nearby children or jealous lover, and improved overall chance
modified Extra NPCs (non-romance-ready) chance
revealed bed-own setting in holotape (was unintentionally hidden in 1.61) to claim intimate twin/double-beds
Sex Appeal now considers player level to represent earned knowledge adventuring
fixed case companion fails to remove hats, gloves or other armor for bed
fixed necklace equipped not showing up in holotape
fixed Danse selected for scene before starting romance
fixed stuck Pip-Boy preventing custom Pip-Boy equip - updater will un-stick it if stuck
fixed case companion not going to bed for Immersive Rest
fixed on player sleep, companion already sleeping not changing outfit (older feature affected by recent changes)
notification for fast-time-resume now adheres to Notifications setting
changed title of Rest/Sleep Settings menu to ‘Rest and Undress Setings’
SnapBeds - added missing double-bed pre-war ‘left’ side as intimate bed
Grand Harbor Hotel corpse-on-bed: allows intimacy, but no sleep with corpse
Quick Sleep (Immersive Rest disabled) sleep-stop if romanced companion fails placed in bed (by game) then player character put in bed
performance tweaks

Update 1.61 (2019 March 18)

added Intimate Bed with storage - see Beds page
bed ownership warn/claim feature - see Beds page
new Intimacy Setting: Gender Preference (both, male, female)
Human Ada (Ada2Human) available for intimacy with Extra NPCs enabled and after completing ‘Restoring Order’ quest
Companion Affinity - same romanced companions that hate flirting also hate player getting intimate with another lover
increased Sex Appeal bonuses for wearing sleep clothes or in underwear
increased chance bonus for party drugs
increased beginner intimacy bonus to help get started (applied 8 hours after fail)
fixed companion already sleeping in bed kicked out or not undressing
fatigue recovery timer corrected
fixed case companion for bed fails to dress in red or white bathrobe
fixed holotape ‘Scan mods for new gear’ broken since 1.50
fixed case when prompt for Extra NPC companions even though preference not enabled for Extra NPCs

Update 1.55 (2019 Feb 08)

updated Dogmeat go-to-bed: if no dog-sleep nearby, Dogmeat will lay down at foot of sleeping bag or current location
Immersive Rest fast-wait-time: updates Hours Waited stat - 5-hour rest in 4 real-time minutes
Immersive Rest for Survival: resets fatigue clock based on sleep situation for more realistic fatigue timing
Immersive Rest for Survival: prevent fatigue-level incapacitate forcing out of bed
Immersive Rest 3+ hours: romanced companion speaks wake
Immersive Rest for private/owned bed/settlement now up to 7 hours
Immersive Rest: 7+ hours with romanced companion grants Intimate Rest perk (+1 End, +20 Sex Appeal) for 20 hours or until sleep interruption
Immersive Rest fast-time starts 20 seconds sooner and optionally displays screen effect
exit bed now says “Awaken” activation
corrected day-of-week for January and February off by one day
undress: companion sometimes failed to redress all armors–extended delay timer and auto-save to avoid interrupting
settings correction for companion go-to-bed switching to always
Undress situational: changed owned bed to always undress to be consistent with settlement bed
recognizes beds from “Settlement Supplies Expanded” mod
after bed increased delay for when ‘Rest’ reappears to avoid unexpected situations/errors
fixed red, white bathrobes not always equip on companion
fixed gift-removal and “lucky dog” notifications being hidden caused by change in previous version
fixed missed backpack clean-up after undress reset and no-undress intimate-no-sleep situations
fixed case just entered bed radiation interruption forcing out too soon without controls
SnapBeds: added missing pre-war bed and allows both sides for companion go-to-bed
2nd lover go-to-bed for Immersive Rest–no undress
companion go-to-bed: considers owned bed first, correction for nearest bed occupied or settler-owned bed resulting in companion standing doing nothing
Immersive Rest: after intimacy prompt for Rest if not tired
added Cryopod to no-rest list
updated help text in holotape and tips

Update 1.40 (2018 Dec 18)

intimacy chance holiday bonus (Christmas, Halloween, St Valentine’s Day,…)
intimate persuasion owned-bed prompt so you know which bed bestows improved chance
now double-bed provide proper intimate location bonus
tweaked intimacy chance favorably
now formerly romanced companions available at ‘flirting’ level - acquire more likes to re-establish romance
Curie now available before romanced
added bad bed-height notification
added more helpful tips for sleep features
companion bed-finder: ignores settler beds so will find un-owned, empty bed
Immersive Rest under 1-hour no longer gives disease
companion undress: fixed case of failed armor remove
replaced game randomizer with my own for statistically more accurate chance success rate

Update 1.32 (2018 Dec 8)

companion bed finder much improved success rate
“Tales of Commonwealth” mod - locations recognized for improved intimacy chance
companion go-to-bed setting fixed
companion selector fixed case higher rank replacing lower rank companion
if controls stuck after bed - sneak to reset - updated for more cases
bunk beds available for companion go-to-bed
intimate prompt Display Chance no longer displays unknown flag (-200) replaced with real score

Update v1.30

new setting Sort Holotape top/bottom
Dogmeat go to doggy bed (doghouse) for Immersive Rest
new bathrobe colors: red, white
Mask mark fixed to stop marking after first equip
Purple Bathrobe: corrected ground model color (was pink)
start new game - replaced silent startup with delayed startup after exiting Vault 111
renamed settings ‘Partner go to bed’ to ‘Companion go to bed’ and ‘Partner Busy Reminder’ to ‘Companion Busy Reminder’
bed Rest activator now allows more custom races

Update v1.24

Magnolia date - fixed stuck at end talk
added Basics Help and Problems-Solutions Help to holotape
Immersive Rest: added continue sleep reminder on interrupted sleep
Immersive Rest auto-save setting option added 5+ hours and replaced 3+ with 2+ hours
companion bed-finder: adjusted so advanced search works more often and in wider area for larger homes
companion bed-finder: game-bug workaround – sometimes fails, so make sure companion close to bed
Immersive Rest: fixed invalid health update following a full sleep then getting in-and-out of bed before 1 hour
DLC Workshop green vault bed now provides intimate chance bonus like double-bed
intimate persuasion chance adjustments: sleeping NPCs reduced by 1 each, weather–summer +3% and winter +4% (reduced penalty)

Update v1.21

Intimate Destinations quest: fix for Far Harbor locations and toggle disable/enable restores checkmarks
intimate persuasion: bigger bonus for beginner (no success yet) 8 hours and 24 hours after fail
intimate scene (dances) character position changes to reduce player character movement
auto-save restricted to no more often than 8 hours to avoid double-save after interrupted immersive sleep

Version 1.16 update:

added notices for bed unavailable for intimacy
limited auto-save to no sooner than 3 game-hours
custom camera: sometimes became stuck in 3rd-person so toggles to fix
correction for Pip-Pad visible bug introduced in v1.13

Version 1.13 Update:

Undress Check fixed
SnapBeds double-beds improve locaiton score - sleep in “right half” for companion to take “left”
companion bed-finder improved - works best if near bed
added auto-save option for Immersive Rest

Version 1.10 update:

fixed Sleep Clothes Menu mark/unmark
companions now go-to-bed for Immersive Rest if can find a bed
added companion names to most intimate prompts
added more notices for more feedback
support Nick Valentine romance mod
performance improvements to redress and end-scene clean-up

Version 1.07 update:

added persuasion fail voice (“Nope”)
added beginner tutorial message for intimacy
optional partner-busy for intimacy reminder – when enabled reminds you if companion is sitting down so you may select Rest or Cancel to try again.