Name: Sleep Intimate
Version: 3.25
Date: 2025-07-29
original release: 2018-10-30
Category: Gameplay Effects and Changes
Requirements: ---
Author: DracoTorre
Source: https://www.dracotorre.com/mods/sleepintimate/
Homepage: https://www.dracotorre.com/mods/sleepintimate/

Script sources available on GitHub: https://github.com/Dracotorre/SleepIntimateV2

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Requires Fallout 4 version 1.10.980 or newer
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Required Files
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* SleepIntimate.esp
* SleepIntimate - Main.ba2
* SleepIntimate - Textures.ba2
* MCM/Config/SleepIntimate/config.json
* MCM/Config/SleepIntimate/keybinds.json
* Tools/BodySlide/


Download latest from https://www.dracotorre.com/mods/sleepintimate/

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Description
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an immersive sleep and romance mod for Fallout 4 
-- includes custom kiss and hug animations (2) by TheRealRufgt, and kiss, hug, and dance animations (3) by AVilas used with permission 

The goal of Sleep Intimate is to change game-play for more immersive, role-playing experience with sleep and romance. Watch your character sleep, interrupt sleep to continue later, and risk interruption by storms. The normal romantic companion bonus is now considered like a snuggle-bonus, but to get more intimate use intimacy skills. Successful persuasion results in pre-bed animated scene earning a new bonus. Intimate scenes are silly dances plus your imagination and may be disabled if just looking for a new sleep experience.

Sleep Intimate available in choice of packages:
   - R-X (adult)	- includes hug and kiss animations, packed with EVB male assets and BodyTalk sliders, and supports optional animations packs
   - XOXO 		- hugs and kisses only, no naughty assets included and restricted functionality - no AAF support
   - XB1 / XOXO		- available on Bethesda.net with restricted content and functionality in accordance to Bethesda.net terms - no AAF support


Sex animations not included, and will only play hugs or kisses without an animation pack. Playing R-X without an animation pack is funtionally the same as playing XOXO.

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Installation
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Add using your mod manager and sort SleepIntimate.esp above any dialogue or lighting overhauls. 

or manually:
1. unzip the downloaded file
2. copy contents of the Data folder to your game's Data folder
3. in game use the mods menu to activate SleepIntimate.esp and sort above any dialogue or lighting overhauls

Keep a back-up copy of your save-game file in case you wish to remove Sleep Intimate and reload the old save.

Load order: sort lighting overhauls (ELFX) and dialogue overhauls ("Player Comments and Head Tracking", "Start me up", and "Dating Magnolia") after SleepIntimate.esp.

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Getting Started
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Sleep Intimate starts with a notification and tip after leaving Vault 111. Players using an alternate-start mod may need to manually start Sleep Intimate using the holotape or MCM.

How to sleep: activate 'Rest' for immersive rest or 'Sleep' for normal game sleep.

Optional seated scenes (bench/chair/sofa): hug or kiss (or dance) by select 'Relax' at chair. Enable Seat Scenes in Intimacy Settings Menu.

Create holotape '[Settings] Sleep Intimate' at chem station to adjust preferences. MCM also supported.


Note: During Intimate animations Orbit-view may shake. Adjust camera away from walls and furniture, and avoid beds or tables with low overhead objects. If shaking excessive or encounter alignment issues, see below to use -strict.

Adjust Camera View options for intimate scenes with internal standard animation player found in Intimacy Menu/Settings:
   - Scene View - Orbit-or-Look-default = Orbit-view for most seats, tables, props, standing scenes, embrace; Look-view for others
   - Scene View - Orbit-or-Look-strict = Look-view for furniture scenes; uses Orbit-view for standing scenes (pick-spot), embrace, old Leito's 1.4
   - to include Orbit-view for beds in default, select Go-to-Bed disabled/prompt


For a full list of features and instructions, 
  see the webpage: https://www.dracotorre.com/mods/sleepintimate/
  for XOXO or XB1, see https://www.dracotorre.com/mods/sleepintimatexb1/


Supported Animation packs:

XOXO or R-X:

* C.H.A.K Animation Pack by AVilas	- 9 scenes
* "Raid My Heart" by TheRealRufgt	- 1 scene

R-X: Optional animation packs supported without AAF or F4SE. AAF considered optional; download additional files required for AAF. Learn more about animation packs on the website at https://www.dracotorre.com/mods/sleepintimate/sleepintimatex/#animationpacks

* "50 Shades" by GrayUser 		- 4 scenes
* "Atomic Lust" by TheRealRufgt		- 19 scenes
* Old Rufgt's Animations		- 4 scenes
* "Creature Pack" by Grayuser		- 2 scenes for Strong
* "Fallout 4 Animations by Leito"	- 25 scenes
* "Mutated Lust" by TheRealRufgt	- 2 scenes for Strong
* Rohzima animations (RZSex)		- 28 scenes
* SavageCabbage's My Animations pack	- 87 scenes
* TBOS Bedroom Hymn			- 3 scenes
* "ZaZOut4" by ZaZ			- 2 scenes (+2 shortened)

Notes: "Atomic Lust" requires AAF to install, but animations may play using Sleep Intimate built-in player. Users without AAF may consider old Rufgt's Animations. "50 Shades" requires AAF.esm as master, but requirement may be removed using FO4Edit.
Savage Cabbage's mod-manager installer requires AAF.esm, but not for play. Trick your mod manager by temporarily installing AAF, install SavageCabbage, then remove AAF.


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New for version 3
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* includes 3 new animations provided by AVilas -- standing hug, standing kiss, and a romantic slow dance
* seat Relax now may choose Embrace or Kiss
* now disabled Undress-for-Rest allows intimacy and chair Relax restricted to hug/kiss/cuddles
* bed cuddles generally follow Undress-for-Rest preference unless sleep outfit is a bathrobe (flips too much) or player character already in sleep outfit
* recognizes "Raid My Heart" by TheRealRufgt for XOXO or R-X
* recognizes C.H.A.K Animation Pack by AVilas for XOXO or R-X
---- at chair activate Relax and choose Embrace or Kiss or romantic dance
---- at bed activate Rest: for XOXO users will randomly choose among cuddles and kisses, for R-X users choose Pick-a-Scene -> Cuddle
* (R-X) Pick-a-Scene menu same-gender aware and may cancel (Nevermind)
---- for females using strap-on toy, drop/store strap-on to display same-gender menu

see SleepIntimate_changeLog.txt for complete list

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Primary new features for version 2
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* hug and kiss included with animations provided by TheRealRufgt and supports kissing custom-height companions
* optional seat (chair, bench, sofa, stool) 'Relax' activate to embrace (minimum 35% chance) or dance
* Intimate Lover's Ring for your true love - remain faithful, locate lover, seated not considered busy
* Intimate Dance Pole (R-X), Intimate Motorcycle, Intimate Pool Table, Intimate Sedan (R-X)
* Intimate Chair is player-only chair, Intimate Private Bed is player-only bed
* full MCM with (nearly) all holotape features
* spectators: nearby companions guards, or other NPCs may view/cheer. Guards may persue for crime (violence optional)
* (R-X only) 8 animations packs supported without AAF - may optionally play using AAF, but scene selection more limited
* (X only) bed Scene Pick: select companion's favorite for improved chance, or pick a style
* (X only) invite second lover to join intimate scene - animation pack dependent
* (X only) Orbit-or-Look-default may change default view for most scenes - enable Cancel Scene and Test Mode then cancel animation (Pip-boy button)


What's different between the packaged downloads, R-X, XOXO, or XB1, in version 2?

   differences between XOXO and XB1
 	- XOXO includes MCM on Nexusmods download only
	- XOXO includes Camisole Nightgown Nexusmods only

   differences between XOXO and R(-X)
   	- XOXO installed animation packs ignored -- no naughty scenes (R-X includes option to ignore)
  	- XOXO no AAF support
	- XOXO no Scene Pick or second lover for intimate scenes
	- R is ahead version +0.0002 to ensure switching from XOXO does full upgrade
   	- XOXO packed BA2 has fewer assets (switch to R-X requires re-install):
   		- missing Leito's EVB male body meshes for EVB Best-fit 
		- altered scripts concerning AAF and naughty/sexy sections
		- missing source script files (available on GitHub)


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Credits and tools used
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Leito for sharing "Enhanced Vanilla Bodies" (EVB) and "FO4 Animations by Leito" (includes customized meshes and textures)
TheRealRufgt for inclusion of "Atomic Lust" Embrace and Kissing animations
jet4571 for "Naughty Nighties" modder's resource meshes, textures used for Camisole Split and Camisole Nightgown, https://www.nexusmods.com/fallout4/mods/43873
Caliente and ousnius for "Caliente's Beautiful Bodies Enhancer" (CBBE), https://www.nexusmods.com/fallout4/mods/15
Team ZeX for "Fusion Girl", https://www.nexusmods.com/fallout4/mods/37268
Ezfreee for synth Gen2 EVB meshes and help with testing

ousnius for "Material Editor" tool
Niftools NifSkope
ElminsterAU, zilav et al for FO4Edit
steve40 and Flipdeezy for holotape naming pattern - wanted to be consistent
Creation Kit

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Permissions
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See the Nexus page 'permissions and credits' section for details, and review permissions of included assets by other authors: jet4571, Leito, TheRealRufgt

No part of this mod, including patches for this mod, may be used for commercial, monetizing, or donation-taking projects. As per Leito"s permissions, Leito"s content (includes body/skin files found within main archive) not allowed on Bethesda.net, or to be used for donation-taking projects or commercial mods or projects. Instead of distributing entire assets, please refer others to https://www.nexusmods.com/fallout4/mods/35637/.

You may create and distribute patches, including language patch or complete translated plugin, by requiring original file download. Please do not distribute whole assets. Patches should not circumvent restrictions, alter preferences player expects, or introduce content that would not comply with Bethesda.net rules for distribution on Bethesda.net, or any other non-age-restricted site.



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Compatibility
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incompatible
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* a mod that alters the bed activation without providing a toggle to enable/disable
* "Follower Revive System" by TheBeat69 - interrupts intimate animations -- disable Intimate Scenes to avoid animation issues 
* custom player-race without bed animations (ie: a creature race) will not work
* custom robot companions unavailable
* make-child mod
* bed inside "Shezrie's Fenway Apartments?" incompatible (markers turned sideways) - use normal Sleep instead
* "Dave's Poses?" face-expression menu breaks 'Rest' and 'Relax' activators: after using, take Dave's advice and load older save - see post?
* "See You Sleep CW" normally incompatible, but made compatible via toggle provided with Sleep Intimate Settings holotape 
* ?? "Unique Player Framework?" (UPF) - reportedly need to manually redress (unverified) - consider disable Redress after Rest (v2.60+)

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general mods compatible advice
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* "Advanced Needs 2" by joerqc -- use Immersive Rest disabled / Quick Sleep
* "APC Transport" sleeping bag - not enough space for animation; use normal sleep
* "Build Your Own Pool" (BYOP) / AkaWaterWorld - player-house showers recognized when Savage Cabbage's animations active
* "Companions also need to eat and sleep" (NNES) - use sleep settings, NNES, to toggle Rest/Bed Reserver
* "Depravity" - recognized for intimacy bonus and as alternate Goodneighbor hotel for Intimate Quest
* Elzee's "Dynamic Timescale and Chime" -- recommend Immsersive Rest (Fast-Time-Wait) OR disabled (Quick-Sleep)
* "Functional Displays" by SecretAgent99 -- armor mannequins counted as potential voyeurs!  -- fixed in update v2.62
* "Fusion City Rising" - locations recognized for intimacy bonus and additional dances for dance-at-chair feature
* "Height Variety" by VGmods - recommend preference Intimacy -> Kiss Actor Align (Enabled-Default) -- fixed in update v2.84
* "Horizon" - disable Sleep-Save-Allowed so Rest will appear on beds (set Z_HorizonSettings_SleepSaveAllowed to 0) -- if plugin detected will disable Health Recovery
* "See you sleep CW Edition" by Flipdeezy and Steve40 - only if disabled - may switch using settings in Sleep Intimate holotape?
* gender-swapped perks (Lady Killer / Black Widow) - Sex Appeal bonus applied to target gender
* "Let's Dance?" - recognized to include more dances for Dance-at-chair feature
* MCG - to rent a bed, draw weapon which will hide Rest activator and show MCG's rent activator
* "Pip-pad" by PimpCrew - Sleep Intimate recognizes to avoid removing during undress according your undress preferences -- when Mark backpack or sleep clothes, open Pip-Pad first then use holotape or MCM to Mark and go directly to the inventory menu
* "Place Anywhere" - when finished placing, disable feature (instructions on website?)
* "Player Comments and Head Tracking?" -  sort plugin after SleepIntimate.esp; will auto-disable before bed, re-enable after, (post by yuser?) --except for Magnolia, before date manually toggle head-tracking off
* "Player Head Tracking" - will auto-disable before bed (v2.20+), re-enable after to avoid interrupting sleep animation -- except for Magnolia; before date manually toggle off head-tracking
* "Locksmith - Lock your Doors 'n' Containers?" by Testudini - adds Outfit Dressers and Outfit Locker Quick Dress on no-lock list
* "Singing Settler" by Arkanan -- disable Singing Settler audience cheering OR do embrace/intimacy far away from singer
* "Sleep or Save" by Loganbacca  - use settings toggle Rest/Save
* "Smokeable Cigars - Cigarettes" - Joints" by Flipdeezy - joint recognized for intimacy bonus chance
* "Tales of the Commonwealth - some locations provide intimacy bonus chance
* "Furniture Owner" - use weapon marker then put it away to Rest
* "Transfer Settlement Blueprints" - if Rest messages states "unsafe height" try reposition bed
* "Valentine Romanced" or similar should allow Valentine to participate in embrace
* "Workshop Plus" by kinggath - disable Workshop Item Activation (see tip by Badbonez?) so that Rest activator will be available, or build Intimate Private Bed (v2.60+); also see "This is MY Bed"

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custom beds / camping / dogmeat beds compatible
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* "Campsite" by Fadingsignal - Sleeping bags work best. For tents: on exit if character becomes stuck then pack up tent
* "Clean Beds" (v2.60)
* "Conquest" by Chesko - Great for camping with workshop-style placement. Blue tarp marked as no-rest area
* "Cozy Beds" - some beds are private (v2.60)
* Dogmeat go-to-bed during player sleep - nearby custom bed/house with the dog-sleep keyword should be found
* "Easy Home Builder and Working Double Beds" by Hozsa - pillows with frames recognized, sedan, and chair
* Efera's Better Beds
* "Homemaker"
* "Lovers Luxury Bed" mods "Black Widow" and "Lady Killer" recognized as double-bed for animations (v2.54)
* "Renovated Furniture" by aesfocus (v2.60)
* "SnapBeds" by ferret - double-bed support- use either side and companion uses other during Immersive Rest
* "Sleep Together Anywhere"by Hoamaii - 'Rest' for the mod or activate "Intimate" for Sleep Intimate - supports Immersive Rest recovery and Relax at custom chairs
* "Settlements Expanded" (SSEX) - includes chairs, bunk beds, double beds
* "This is MY Bed" -- private beds; recognizes bunk and cot for limited-space animations (v2.60)
* "Workshop Rearranged"

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custom companions compatible and advice
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* custom-height companions (such as "Height Variety" by VGmods) - recommend preference Intimacy -> Kiss Actor Align (Enabled-Default)
* "Heather Casdin" (original and V2)  by LlamaRCA - recognizes her unique romance level, her bunker as safe place, and her bag -- hire/follow before getting intimate
* "Ada2Human" - set preference Intimate Scenes (enabled Extra NPCs) and complete Ada's quest
* "Construct a Custom Companion" (PersonalBodyGuard) by Karel2015 
* "Dual Survivors" - may get intimate from start with bonus chance
* "Insane Ivy" (LoversLab) - immediately available and intimate chance bonus
* "Nora Spouse" - may get intimate before romanced with bonus chance
* "Wastlander Barb" by Netherworks - romance-ready after earn perk

supports custom/unique body from the following:
--- "Unique Followers REDUX"
--- "Unique Nora for Nora Survives" by Shinichi Kawashigi (www.nexusmods.com/fallout4/mods/47032)
--- "Nora Spouse Companion - Unique Follower" by J3tAc3 (www.nexusmods.com/fallout4/mods/49814)
--- "Insane Ivy" by Reginald_001 (LoversLab)
--- "I'm Darlene" by GePalladium
--- "T0-R1 Victoria Standalone Companion" (Tori) by CCClover

Custom companions using normal companion romance system should be available for intimacy. If not, try equip Intimate Lover Ring, or try equip ring with Test Mode enabled to override companion checks.

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custom homes recognized as private for intimacy
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* "Basement Living" by Fadingsignal
* "Chestnut Lodge" by Elionora
* "Thirty-Yard Bunker" by Elionora
* Femshepping's Cliff-side Home
* RRTV Goodneighbor Condo

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custom races compatibility notes
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* "AnimeRace Nanakochan" by hiyokomod -- embrace only per mod permission (no nudity) -- see post?.
* "Vulpine Race" by beardofsocrates -- (furry humanoid) limited animations and face may clip
* Lupine and Amelia races supported same as Vulpine
* unrecognized custom player-race mod may embrace only (update v2.54 to fix beds) 
* unrecognized custom companion race mod unavailable

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custom armor compatibility notes
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All armors will work, but gear using extended body slots my need customization using the holotape. A number of custom armor mods including backpacks recognized by Sleep Intimate. Beware of custom armor items considered quest item (ie: "Utility Belt") to un-equip before using Outfit Container Quick Dress or Intimate Bed.

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custom backpack mods recognized
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* AWKCR-supported packs, bandoliers
* "AnS Wearable Backpacks and Pouches"
* "Backpacks of the Commonwealth"
* "Commonwealth Teddy Bears"
* "Efera"s Shoulder Bags"
* "Field Scribe Backpack"
* "Provisioner"s Backpack"
* "Scavver"s Backpacks"
* "Shoulder Bag for all"
* "Survivalist GoBags"
* "Teddy Bear Backpack" 
* recognizes backpack from "Vault 111 Outfit" by DeserterX
* recognizes purse from "Pornstar Fashion" by DeserterX

For other backpacks, assign as backpack using holotape or MCM Backpacks

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custom clothing recognized as sleep outfits
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* "Lacy Underwear" and "Sporty Underwear" by ousnius - bra-and-panty set and panty, but bra-only not included
* "El Men"s Underwear" by Yusei x Darnexx and Elza
* "Cute Sleepwear" by Femshepping
* "Girls Workshop" by newermind - handles tops, recognizes jackets
* "Hitchhiker Robe"
* TBOS Sweatpants
* "Tera Nurse" by derpsdale - underwear
* "DA Lingerie"

For other outfits, assign as sleep outfit using holotape or MCM Sleep Clothes button.

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custom jewelry recognized to avoid removing for sleep/intimacy
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* AWKCR-supported piercings
* "Elegant Hardware" by Peekaboo Corp - necklace and chokers (adds small Sex Appeal bonus)
* FO4 Piercings by SED7

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custom armor/clothing with recognized items
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* AWKCR-supported jackets, cloaks
* "Atom Girl Outfit" by Deserter X/nsk13 - Nuka Bear as pouch and sleep buddy, rifle and accessories
* "Azar"s Holstered Weapons" - backpacks and weapon-accessories
* "Black Widow" by Deserter X/nsk13
* "CROSS 2077" by Niero - jacket " headset/mask not included to let player decide
* CROSS CoA
* "CROSS BoS Uni" by Niero
* "CROSS Brotherhood Recon" by Niero - overcoat/vest, mask, shades, helmet
* "CROSS Institute Expeditionary Suit" by Niero - mask, helmet
* "CROSS Mojave Manhunter" by Niero- duster, hat
* "CROSS Wasteland Ronin"
* "Fetish Fashion part 1" by Deserter X - jewelry
* "Harley Quinn" by Deserter X/nsk13 - jacket
* "Jackets of the Commonwealth"
* "Pornstar Fashion" by Deserter X - collar counts as choker bonus
* "Red Ribbon" by Deserter X - choker, candy cane as backpack
* "The Kite"s Handmaiden" by Neiro and TheKite - overcoat, hat
* "The Kite"s Militia Woman" by Neiro and TheKite - overcoat, backpack
* "Modular Jackets"
* "Overboss Outfit" by Deserter X/nsk13 - jacket
* "Ranger Gear" - overcoats, helmets, masks, bandoliers
* "Star Trek TOX" by DeserterX - tricorder
* "Vault 111 Outfit CBBE" by DeserterX - backpack
* Vtaw Wardrobe 1 - jacket recognized
* "We Are the Minutemen" - bag and backpack




